Well , let me start by saying that it’s ok to become unavailable to people who don’t value you. I know we love our family and friends so much that we sometimes stretch ourselves too wide just to accommodate their needs and wants . They need a ride to the supermarket, they need to talk , they need you to watch the kids or maybe it’s a relationship or a job that doesn’t value you . It’s always about their needs and wants and they never consider your needs and wants . I know you don’t want to be alone . So , you would rather be with someone or somewhere you are unhappy than to be alone . He or she will tell you they are going to change after you tell them the things you don’t like that they continue to do . They change but only temporarily. Don’t fool yourself into thinking they will change . People change when they are ready to change not because we want them to . Today , I am posting this message to let you know that it is ok to become unavailable to people that don’t value you! You rearrange your schedule to accommodate them and they still don’t appreciate it. I know , you end up feeling used and abused . Stop trying to convince yourself that one day people who don’t see your true value will suddenly value you . It’s ok to move on. They may see it one day but only after you move on . If they don’t value you at your job seek out new employment. Don’t get stuck because you think that all jobs are the same . Don’t get stuck in a relationship you are unhappy in because you feel that is the best that you can do . Don’t get stuck in that so called friendship because you have been friends since highschool and I know you love that person but if it doesn’t work anymore stop trying to make it work . Unfortunately, it is some things in life that we repair way too long and we spend so much time and money trying to fix it , that we could’ve purchased something brand new but instead we continue to pour into things that are beyond repair . Sometimes, you have to let go and move on . This message is to let you know that it is ok for you to become unavailable to things that aren’t worth investing in any longer. Today, free yourself from being used and abused and close the doors of hurt and disappointments. Instead, allow new doors to open before you . Behind those new doors are new jobs, better relationships, joy , and peace . Tell yourself “I will no longer make myself available to people who don’t value me.” It’s nothing wrong with wanting to be appreciated . Be healed from past hurt and forgive the people who didn’t value you and from this day forward even if no one else values you . Value yourself! Now you’re current status is unavailable to people that don’t value you.
From the heart of me 